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[quote=Anonymous]Married to DH for 11 years. 2 kids. We both WOTH and hold advanced degrees from a respectable public ivy. Decent HHI.  He is just a genuinely kind, fair and responsible husband and father who treats me like his equal.  No issues from either of us with money, abuse, infidelity, addiction, etc. We fight fair, sex is good. He shares in childcare and household duties.  Met him through online dating site after a disastrous but brief first marriage to an asshole.  His former classmates remember him as the all around nice guy who was friendly and good to everyone.

Google "peer marriage"...when I focused on finding a decent guy with similar values and temperament, everything fell into place. I now look back on my dating years and think the framework I used (romantic love/"the one"/"I'll just know"/you can make it work if youre just committed enough) was kind of stupid and made the search for a husband lengthier and more difficult than it needed to be.

The past 11 years have been smooth sailing even though things have happened that I suppose could be framed as "we've had our ups and downs" or "been through a lot"[/quote]

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