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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been married 26 years, been together 30 years. College sweethearts.  For both him and me it was lust at first sight. And while our kids think it hilarious that we found each other "HOT" because for them we are just middle aged parents, when I look at him I still see that hot guy.

Now, we have had our lows in our marriage too, generally it was annoyance with each other because of chores , tiredness, stress of work, childcare. rudeness or something equally petty. It was never adultery (or EA), abuse or addiction. We always had a very good sex life, and while it waned when kids were born for some years, it came back in full force and in more erotic ways after kids were older.

So, I can go through the checklist of stuff for him - educated, personable, compatible sex drive, shared values,  loyal, good earner - and that is all good and dandy, but what makes him a good husband for me is the following things. He has always respected me and has my back. He is very loving towards my parents and I am the same with his parents. He is a fantastic father - he can put a male seahorse to shame.  He is a very principled man - very fair, believes in equality towards all, environmentally conscious and has a good moral compass.

I have been very sick for past two years and he has taken care of me, the kids, home, school, work, our relationship - single handedly and without one complaint.  He has nursed me back to health so cheerfully and without any fuss, that most people did not realize that I had been sick. He  has been grace under fire and very protective of me.  In the end, that's what makes him a good husband.

I am so glad that he is the father of my children, because my DD knows what a good man is like, and my DS knows how to be a good man for his wife and children. [/quote]

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