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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The thing about the yelling is that he CHOOSES to ALLOW himself to abuse you. Presumably he doesn't yell and scream at his boss, his subordinates or his mother. IT is a choice to decide how to respond to feelings of rage. The feelings may not be a choice but the response is a choice.  Would he be willing to read a book on anger or to attend anger management classes?  I left the home when the yelling started and also told my husband I would leave unless he took a class. I have college aged kids and realized I did not want to be yelled at every day for the rest of my life.[/quote]

That is exactly the point I got to as well. I didn't want to be yelled at every day for the rest of my life.

Op, he is the one with a problem. He should be finding a therapist. The next time he yells at you tell him you won't be spoken to in that tone of voice and if he doesn't like it he can leave. Take back your self-respect. I'm not being mean, I've been there and I would bend over backwards to make sure everything was just the way he wanted it. But it was never enough. Stop playing his games and take control of your life. He's acting like a child. If he wants to have temper tantrums let him, but tell him you won't be around to watch. [/quote]

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