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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. So I found the browsing history from when he set it up and looks like he was perusing the site that night (last week when I was away) but hasn't done anything since. Unfortunately I can't just leave with 3 little children. I don't want to tell my family because I need to decide what to do. I want time to think but I also just want to confront him when the children go to sleep tonight and get it over with. But partly I'm afraid he'll say it was a one time thing but then change his passwords and be more careful with his browsing history so I won't ever know if he's being honest. Obviously at the very least we need counseling (if I even want to stay) but I don't know where to start or what to do but if I wait I don't know how to pretend everything is fine tonight.[/quote]

If I found this, I too would be very upset. WTH is he doing on that site? That being said, I think people who are rushing to the conclusion that he is or plans to cheat are premature. Its possible that he was bored and curious and this is more fantasy than anything else. If he doesn't log back in to check message, if he hasn't used any money to sign up, etc, that is the most likely case. This is not to dismiss your concerns, or tell you not to be watchful---but if nothing else happens, no inapporpriate behavior, then I would actually not bring it up specifically but address any issues in the marriage you might have (and it sounds like young kids, which is very hard on marriage). [/quote]

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