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Reply to "s/o - feeling "poor" at these ludicrously high incomes. what are they actually missing?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think the definitions and income bands have shifted over time. In the 80s-90s middle class or even UMC meant you owned a home in a good district so ideally you sent the kids to public school but the home wasn't necessarily new or large and often your kids shared bedrooms; you saved some for retirement and college; you had 2 cars but it's possible one or both were used and neither was luxury; you took 1 driving vacation a yr; you ate out once a week max and in some families it was more like once a month or a few times a yr for birthdays etc. Now people seem to think UMC means huge new house and no kid will be sharing a bathroom let alone a bedroom; the option of going to private school when they get in a snit with their public school teacher; maxing out retirement; 2 cars - both new and both luxury; and at least 2 flying vacations per yr; and eating out 5-10 times/week -- fast casual any time their heart desires + all groceries MUST come from Whole Foods. Then when they realize that even at 300k, all of that can be a financial stress -- then they act miserable bc they "feel" poor.[/quote]
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