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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if this is such a big deal for your, you should cut your losses and find another person who would want to be married and have kids in that manner.  But only you know if this is a deal breaker.  She may change her mind, but she may not, and you should operate under the assumption that she will stay the way she is now.  I don't think she's being selfish, but she has a point of view that is in direct contradiction to your point of view and you portray her as intractable.  I think it's totally reasonable to want to be married, and you still have time to find someone else if you want to.  You don't have a ton of time to contemplate this with your girlfriend because fertility is an issue more for women and if you wait another four years, the chances of having a baby at all would be low.

So, make a decision.  Either accept that marriage is not part of the deal with this woman and stay and put that dream behind you, or realize that marriage is actually too important to you and move on.[/quote]

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