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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.
This kind of blew up since last night!

I'll try to answer everyone.

He didn't start our 2nd date by saying  he needed to tell me something, and I didn't push him for information.
I asked a very casual question and that led to talking about families and such and he mentioned  growing up in foster care.
Beyond knowing he went in at 6 and was never adopted I don't know any details.
I also don't think the details are my business at this point.

On the surface, from what you can know of someone you met online and after 2  dates, he's a very sweet guy and seems to have his life together. To me he seems more mature than 26 , not that maturity is a bad thing in a guy.
I guess is my worry I have a habit of picking guys with baggage that ends in nothing but relationship drama.
So, when he told me that my mind went immediately to "oh no  not again!"
I want to give it a chance, but I don't want to get caught up with someone who is not healthy again.[/quote]

OP. Did you ever stop to thimk you're the unhealty one? Look at why you keep picking such bad guys. You should take a break and focus on yourself. This guy can be a good guy. You will never know because your ridiculous assumptions. [/quote] +1000[/quote]

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