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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a young woman, I don't get it.  Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly?  Cause that just seems so... dumb.  Messed up.  Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it.  Why?  Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies?  When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me.  Like.... how is this a thing?  In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England?  For reals? [/quote]

It's a result of a thousand years of patriarchy.  Men until VERY recently have been conditioned to think that - and just think - many states don't consider rape with the context of marriage, rape - so if that's the culture you are living in, then that's how it's "a thing"  - don't buy into it, make sure you date and perhaps marry a man who consistently gets consent and is concerned about YOUR feelings, orgasm, etc. and you likely will not be in the same position.  Date a guy who expects you to give him a BJ so he doesn't get blue balls, pressures you for "one more kiss" or one more step forward on the bases, or otherwise denies your feelings, then you might end up in that kind of marriage.  [/quote]

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