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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd go. I'd hold my head high, be gracious to Ex and New Wife, and enjoy watching DD have a great time with her friends. [/quote] I'm going to go, but it's not going to be easy at all. I also told myself I would never set foot in their house (the house that my ex and I were originally suppose to buy together), but I'll do it for my daughter's sake.[/quote] I do difficult things all the time. So I'd just toss this one on the list, you know? You can just walk in, say "Hi, thanks so much for letting me watch Delia enjoy her party; everything looks beautiful" and then when you're leaving say "Bye, thanks again for doing this for Delia; it's clear she had a great time." Other than that, just sit on the side of the pool and interact with your DD and her friends when they invite you in. Think of it - you get to enjoy your DD's party without having to host it. You don't have to show anyone where the bathroom is, get anyone a bandaid, get more towels, prep the food, etc. Just enjoy your girl.[/quote]
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