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[quote=Anonymous]I'd go for your daughter. My parents got divorced after 25+ years and my mother refuses to be in the same room as my father, or when she is makes it uncomfortable for everyone. It wasn't so much an issue for me because I was past events that required both parents but my DD (her granddaughter) had to give her a talking to when it came time for a recent big event because my mother said she wouldn't come. Ultimately she did and it's gotten a little better, but she won't be there when the OW (now my fathers wife) is there. This also upsets my kids, who like my fathers wife and would like her to be at events too. This will be an issue when DD gets married and she and I will need to have another conversation with my mother about moving on (it's been 20 years so it's time). So please don't be that person who makes family events stressful and makes us worry about how we are going to handle events (like weddings) that aren't even here yet.[/quote]
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