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Reply to "Husband unemployed and not applying for jobs. How to manage my feelings?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in the "you don't have to take this any longer" club. However, as you've seen in this thread: Be smart. See an attorney with your questions before you do anything (can you move out with the kids? how do you minimize risk of having to pay alimony?). Separate your premarital money and get his name off of these accounts, so you know what you have and that it can't go missing. Organize your finances so you could move out and set up with the kids. [/quote] Sry: hit send too fast. That last thought is to set up your finances so you could move out. This may mean moving your wages into a direct deposit account you control. It may mean selling your current residence so that money is available for you to buy a new (probably smaller) home. These things are very visible, so do the other items first and then turn to this once you know what your plan actually is.[/quote]
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