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[quote=Anonymous]My DH and I have joint money. It matters not how much each of us makes. His money is our money and my money is our money. So if we want to make a decision about how to spend money, WE have to decide how to spend it. Keep negotiating about your brother and family. You still have work to do to come to an understanding that you can both live with. FWIW I think your DH is VERY generous with your family and brother. You could get a nice used car for $5000 for your brother - maybe your DH would go for that. Regardless, you need to come to an agreement. If one of you disagrees, then I think it is a no on spending. for example, if he wanted to buy boat for $150,000 and you said no, then it should be a no. Likewise with family support, although it is more difficult for sure because it is emotional. Good luck OP - you'll get there - keep talking calmly.[/quote]
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