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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am wondering, when you say overweight, how overweight?  I mean, there is a big difference between a BMI of 28 ( overweight) and a BMI of 40.

I am overweight.  Always have been.  I currently weigh 10 lbs more than I did when I married.  The only time when I lost significant weight was before a cancer diagnosis.

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OP here.  He's right around a [b]BMI of 40[/b].  Maybe higher - he hasn't been on a scale in a while.

I have a very high tolerance for some body size variability.  Earlier in our relationship we both had some ups and downs.  This current issue is just in another category - and it's not really the appearance which is a problem for me; it's the other things i mentioned in my OP.  Mostly the complete lack of vigor and hygiene issues.[/quote]

BMI 40 is not where hygiene should come into play... I mean short of physical impairment of some sort, he should very well be able to wipe his butt. The skin folds should not be growing mold either. The way describe him, I thought he was on the verge of becoming a 600 lb. shut-in.[/quote]

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