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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact that you want to have a later discussion about a pot, and the fact that you took a picture of a pot in a sink to use as evidence in said later discussion point to a high level of crazy. [/quote]

I agree.  And, you don't have to pay two mortgages when one of you move out.  One of you moves out, pays rent and the other gets a roommate in the marital home to help cover the additional cost.[/quote]

But how could an unemployed man pay rent? Wouldn't this mean OP is paying the rent + mortgage? [/quote]

Good god!  Do you really think an unemployed spouse prevents divorce?  An attorney can help you work out an arrangement.  When my husband (unemployed) and I were going through this, I found him a room in a shared townhouse and paid the rent for 6 months in advance.  I had to deplete my retirement savings but it got him out of the house - which was sold as part of the divorce decree and moved into a 1 bedroom apartment (I have 2 kids) until I could get back on my feet.  What I hear in OP's post is excuses for staying in her current situation.

If OP really wanted out, she COULD use the money from a roommate to pay rent for another apartment for her husband or let him stay in the marital home and let it go into foreclosure.[/quote]

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