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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in the process of divorce, and I am often sad as well. I wish I had stood up for my needs sooner and communicated more, maybe things would be different (unlikely). I am sad for my kids. I am sad because I didn't expect this for myself (does anyone?). But...I know some things would never change. He would always be a bully. He would never pull his weight. And I have learned to mostly approach the situation with an open heart and a sense of empathy for how severely emotionally f*ed up he is. So...I try to find the good in each day and when he is being bitter and spiteful I take a breath and remember that he just doesn't know any better. I look forward to my kids seeing me happy and healthy surrounded by friends and family who care. [/quote] +1000 [/quote]
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