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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]dh has serious anxiety disorder and after much trial and error found a medication that controls it somewhat years ago.  problem is it kills his libido, we have sex ~4x/year and its awful when we do b/c it has to be very quick and focused on his stimulation.  he dislikes the side effect but is unwilling to try other meds and risk going back to his point of extreme anxiety.

i've tried to discuss this with him but it just makes him feel awful and produces more anxiety so i've stopped bringing it up.  we have a loving and stable marriage otherwise but i can't stand the thought of giving up any sort of satisfying sex life forever when i'm only in my early 30s.  he would not be ok with an open marriage and he would be devastated and go off the rails if i left - which i don't want to except for the total lack of sex life.

what would you do in my shoes? [/quote]

What about Viagra?

What about he satisfies you sexually other ways?
Why aren't you talking about this with him?[/quote]

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