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Grief counselors are a special breed. They really can help dig out the ugly feelings and help release them, however buried or entwined they might be.

I saw someone only a few times after a devastating loss. It. Helped.

I wouldn't be where I am in life without it. I recall the first couple of visits frequently, even years later. Please seek out someone who specializes in grief. It can help heal what you're struggling to just leave behind.
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I'm going to second the grief counseling.  Grief is a process, op.  The only way past it is through it, a wise counselor once told me.  The fact you're not comfortable sharing the fact you're a widower and struggling with dating suggests to me you still have some work to do. [/quote]

Another widower here. Since the guy purportedly wrote that he is not grieving at this time and that he has no desire to talk to a counselor (and that the woman in question doesn't want to play games), why are you silly folks harping on that? The fact that he is struggling with dating means, _possibly_, that someone who was married did _not_ practice cruising for chicks all those years and isn't actually comfortable trying to impress women. Another factor _might_ be that older women are a tough crowd, so to speak, not easy to impress. I write in "possibly" and "might" because those are my guesses based on my experience. I do talk to a therapist by the way.[/quote]

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