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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a vasectomy back in 2003, solely to relieve my wife of the burden of birth control and associated female side effects. We both are in good physical condition as we enter our fifties. Sex is okay, but rather infrequent (once a month), with age related female libido loss to blame.

My wife has cheated on me a few times over the past 5 years. Not sure if she will ever stop?

Guilt would wreck me if I were to cheat on her.

I regret thinking that a vasectomy would increase her respect level for me and our marriage.[/quote]

My thinking is that if the cheating is happening despite her low libido, she's looking for something else from you beyond taking responsibility for BC. Maybe she needs an emotional connection you aren't supplying? Or maybe you don't satisfy her sexually? It can be difficult to drum up the urge to have lackluster sex.[/quote]

Yeah, you should totally try to satisfy all of her needs so she won't cheat on you anymore.   :twisted: [/quote]

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