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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] As a man, even I agree that there are some red flags on the dates, and some things that make it funny. However, my most dominant thought tells me that there are an awfully lot of immature women.[/quote] +1 I can't understand why women past their mid-twenties are hiding from dates in bars or standing people up instead of just telling them they aren't feeling it and leaving or that they aren't coming. That's what stood out to me most as odd. [/quote] Because I don't enjoy being mean. I go in with good intentions but for me, its just hard to say to a face, I'm not feeling it. I'm learning that its ok to say no. In my previous marriage, saying no was not really tolerated. Go figure. I chalk it all up to learning experience and who cares if its odd? Judge judge away. But at least I had the guts to share what really happened. [/quote] I'm the quoted PP. I get where you are coming from as I also don't like to be mean, but having someone looking around and waiting for you is meaner than telling them what's up. I'm glad that you are making progress in that area. Learning to say no with grace is a hard-won skill for many. [/quote]
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