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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was a couple years out of college I ran into someone in my class out at a mini- reunion type thing. He looked good and I guess I was being a sucker for flattery so I gave him my number. We met for dinner at a restaurant he chose and he proceeded to tell me over dinner:
- how he'd secretly had a huge crush on me in college (cute)
- how he was living at home with his parents
- how he'd worn Prada shoes to impress me (spend that money on rent maybe??)
- how he'd work his blue contacts to impress me (getting creepy now)
- then he proceeded to describe in great detail a dress I wore once at a party that he really liked (crossed into really creepy)

Then the check came and he said he didn't have enough money and just let me pay. No splitting or anything. We went to a bar afterwards because I was trying to find a good way to slowly ease away. He told me he would take the train home and I reminded him about 400 ones not to miss his train. Finally we were getting tight on time for the last train out and I was practically pushing him out the door. He said he'd just stay with a friend in town. I said he could do whatever he wanted, but there was NO WAY he was staying with me. By the time I finally got him moving, there were no more trains for the night and [b]he was begging to stay with me.  He was saying he'd sleep on the floor, on the floor in the hall, etc etc.[/b] I'm guessing his friend let him stay?  Don't know because that's the last time I ever heard from him...[/quote]

I'll probably get told I'm paranoid but this really bothers me- he's acting like he's setting up a date rape scenario that's 'your fault because you wanted it because you let him stay'. All night you were clear in your boundaries and he could not respect them. I think of memories like this and hope you realize you were lucky and good for you for holding firm and not feeling sympathy with this manipulator.[/quote]

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