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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Really OP? You sound a little young so I'll be easy on you. It's really his business to tell you or not to tell you and you need to take it easy with trying to control the info flow. [/quote]

I don't see why he won't tell me. If the situation were reversed I would tell him. It just seems wrong that he  knows all about my first time and  by default my entire sexual history and I don't know much about his. I think it would make sense  for him to tell me about his first time given  the situation.
I'm not controlling anything. I haven't given him any ultimatums or anything.[/quote]

Your insistence on this is odd. [/quote]

I guess it's because I waited a long time and it was special to me, and he tells me it was  a long time ago and it doesn't really remember much, so I think he's lying because  I doubt I'll forget  my first time.

I really don't understand why this is weird. [b]Is this really something people don't talk about?[/b][/quote]

Yes. This definitely fits into the category of "private."

I find your badgering him about it to be immature and offputting. Frankly, I'd dump you if you did this to me. My guess is you've made such a big deal about yours -- assigning a lot of pointless meaning and symbolism to it -- that he suspects his own circumstances won't measure up to whatever ideal you have, so he sees little upside in sharing it.[/quote]

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