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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Blah, blah, blah... Drama, drama, drama. For fuck sakes... It's sex, pleasure, enjoyment. Use common sense. Use protection. Enjoy. Some people think it is some sacred treasure, diamond enlayed, Gold... WTF? You mesh well together or you don't, move on.[/quote] I don't think sex is some sacred treasure. But I also just don't enjoy casual sex. It's not because I feel like sex should be sharing something "special" with a special someone. It's because to really enjoy myself I need to feel relaxed and comfortable around someone. Otherwise, I'm just not going to enjoy it that much. So if I do sleep with someone casually, it *does* feel transactional for me, like I'm doing it for someone else, or for some reason other than to please myself. And that feeling just adds to my discomfort. I've had very satisfying sexual relationships, so it's not about having a low drive or lack of interest.[/quote] Me too[/quote]
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