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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I thought about it differently, if I find the person I'm with to be attractive and the chemistry is right I slept with him pretty early on, maybe date one, three or four.  If the chemistry and sex are lined up then the other parts of the relationship always seem to fall in line.  I've had three serious boyfriends and a number of casual hookups; when I was having sex with them I always knew what I was getting myself into. 
 I had sex with my husband approximately 90 minutes after meeting him, stone cold sober in the middle of the day at an apple orchard; that was 19 years ago. 
 
I went the long way around saying this; give yourself some rules if you like but if you feel it (that unmistakable inner pull towards someone) don't be afraid to break them. [/quote]

Wow! How old were you? How did you meet him? Is the chemistry still there?[/quote]

We were 26, 43 now; he was a friend of a friend who came on a hike with us on a Sunday afternoon.  There were six of us and once we exchanged hellos we never stopped talking. We took up a spot at the back of the group, we were holding hands within minutes, he kissed me and I nearly passed out.  We stopped for lunch at an apple orchard and he sat down across from me and gave me a look, he put out his hand and we walked off together.  What was happening was so obvious to everyone with us that they didn't even come to try and find us when they left to finish the hike.  My girlfriend wrote a note on my car that said "hopefully I can be your maid of honor".

although it certainly not as intense as before we rarely go 36 hours without being together.  There is no one I'd rather be with, he and I have become one. [/quote]

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