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[quote=Anonymous]I also had a 2nd trimester stillbirth. DH and I grieved differently. And we had to give each other space to do so. But the one thing he didn't do was abandon me. His #1 priority was me, my health and comfort. At 1 week post loss, you are still a bundle of hormones and maybe even your milk coming in. I was a wreck. If I was on the couch and just couldn't will myself to go to the kitchen to get something to drink, all I had to do was call for him. He would come from the back of the house and lovingly get it for me. He was at my beck and call and my rock.

We hit a few bumps as we processed things differently, but we worked through them as a team. And I know I can count on him 100% when the sh!t hits the fan.

I'm sorry OP for your loss and the realization that this isn't the guy you want to hitch your star too. This isn't the man who is going to comfort and take care of you when you need it. This is the guy who is alway going to put his needs and wants first. And you will spend your entire life battling with him, until one day he leaves you.

Please find the strength to leave him. Maybe not now, deal with your grief first. But in time.  [/quote]

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