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+1 that there are the right questions to ask.  My DH, who I met in college and was working when we married, has a JD and a Master's and is currently a SAHD that doesn't even keep up with the house or kids all that well but knows a LOT about video games and his hobbies.  He is only a SAHD because he lost his job and didn't even try to find anything else.

I work 60-80 hours a week and have to nag him to do even the most basic thing.  But for the kids, I would be out in a moment, not because he doesn't fulfill some SES need but because he is not truly a partner.  Instead of the motivated person I married, he is horribly lazy and selfish. It just isn't clear from your post whether that is true of your DH or not...[/quote]

So he checked off all your on paper boxes and now you feel deceived. I hope this serves as a valuable lessons to your fellow money grubbing broads.[/quote]

"I just want an equal partner" == "I am entitled to a man whose socioeconomic status is equal to or greater than my own."

The best women (and men, too) are internally motivated. They don't feel "embarrassed" by their spouse's job because they have their own career and hobbies and passions.[/quote]

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