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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I was in your situation about 9 months ago.   I know how you feel.   I know it's hard, but the PP who said to "ghost him" is 100% right.    I didn't and things really blew up in my face.  Please learn from my mistakes.

Completely ghost him.   
In 6 months, if you still feel the need to tell his wife, DON'T tell her about YOU.   You say he is probably cheating with someone else now too (and I will bet you are right!) so see if you can find out about that and tell her about THAT.   
How could she have discovered about the two of you?  Did you communicate through phone/texts?   Tell her to check the phone bills.   Did you often meet in a certain place?   Tell her to check there.   Give her evidence (not YOUR texts/emails) that people know intimate details about her husband---if he has a birthmark or scar in an intimate place, details about the bedroom that someone would only know if they've been in there, does he prefer a certain brand/type of underwear that is distinctive (that was the case in my situation), etc.   But make sure this info does not lead to YOU specifically.

You want her to find out about the other women--not YOU.    She can make your life hell--are you married?   She could tell your husband.   If not, she could tell your parents, your co-workers, etc. and just make everyone else in your life lose respect for you.[/quote]

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