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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know if it's a crisis of conscience as much as I suddenly realized he'd been lying to me. I was reading here actually a post where a woman said her husband had told his OW they never had sex when in fact they were having sex 3 to 5 times a week.

That made me think about him and I started to realize he could have been lying to me about sexlessness in order to sleep with me. I thought she didn't like sex so in my mind - I know it's twisted - but I felt like I wasn't doing something very wrong to her if I was just doing something with him that she didn't want to do anyway.

But I've caught him in lies before, I know he lies a lot, and that post just made me think about the times he's talked about their sex life and how he could have been following my lead in what to say. [/quote]

Here's the crux. You want to punish him by telling the wife.  Stop it.  You can't know whether or not she knows or wants to know. You are going to destroy her life because you want some kind of petty revenge on him.

Let it go. Walk away. [/quote]

It's all about you OP.  You need to stop being selfish.  Move on & don't tell the wife. [/quote]

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