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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your affair still going? Wife find out?[/quote]

Yes, still going.  No, wife has zero clue.

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If she found out, would you end it or continue?[/quote]

I would leave it up to her. I type this as We are going on fancy date to Chevy Chase.  DW looks stunning.  Wish she could find her sexy.[/quote]

And we're home.  And she's tired.  Maybe tomorrow, she says.[/quote]

Me again. She is fucking facebooking.  And I am the bad guy because I am cheating.  Op, you don't have to divorce, but for the love of the Lord show your dh you still want to be with him in a romantic way.  I am at a total loss as to how any woman thinks they deserve monogamy when they enfoce near celibacy.  Why must I choose between my happines and my kids.

I love my wife but we need to end this charade called marriage. [/quote]

If you are that close to the end, tell her that you're seriously contemplating what you just said. Tell her "I love [you], but we need to end this charade called marriage." She needs to hear it. Now.
She may of course give you pity sex for a while and then fall back into the same routine. However, you're having an affair, compartmentalizing, taking her out on dates, being put off from sex [again] and writing this as she 'facebooks' your wonderful evening to brag to friends.

She obviously has no clue about the affair.

You don't have to tell her about it, but if you tell her you've been contemplating one because you feel lonely/rejected/abandoned/hurt/human, she just may wake up to the gravity of the situation.

What you've been doing up to now hasn't worked. You sound ready to end it. Let her know that.[/quote]

Yes... wake up call! [/quote]

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