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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh god. He sounds like my bf. I love but it his lack of self esteem / fear of going out and getting a better career is making me cringe inside and lose respect. It's so so hard to respect and admire a guy who can't go out and be a winner. I'm 29 and feel like if my if I leave him I don't have much of a shot at getting a high achieving confident guy at this age. As those are mostly taken up by smart girls in their early twenties.

At this point I should probably marry him and have a few kids and make the best of it.[/quote]

PP this is the OP. Don't do it. You are still so young and can find someone who may have more values similar to yours re work ethic, etc. You sound like you know this man well enough and know what a future would be like with him. If you can accept that and love him then go for it. But you won't be able to change him. Don't end up in my situation. I wish I had paid more attention to the red flags that were there, but I chose to ignore or spin positively. [/quote]

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