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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you sound like a good person.  I would at least grill him for answers - was he planning to go through with it?  Why did he lead you on?  Was he really going to continue with the relationship?  You also need closure.[/quote]

I agree OP sounds like a great person, but I disagree she should grill him.  Just move on.  He will plead to get her back, tell her what she wants to hear, she may be tempted to believe it because she is understandably in a stage where there is a shot clock on finding a partner to have kids with.

OP, I wrote to you in the explicit column (hopefully one of the thoughtful responses) and said he may be bi but definitely is going to have gay sex.  Just get out now.  I like the suggestion "its not you, it me."  He will suspect why you made the break and he will be relieved that you won't share his secret.

If you exchange in some back and forth, you will end up with him for longer than necessary out of loneliness (many of us have been in and out of relationships with exes because of loneliness).  Don't waste time.  Cleaner the break, the faster your heart will be in the right place to move on and be available to find a man.[/quote]

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