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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you sound like a good person.  I would at least grill him for answers - was he planning to go through with it?  Why did he lead you on?  Was he really going to continue with the relationship?  You also need closure.[/quote]

At best, you would get this years down the road.

1) You need to look yourself in the eyes and ask yourself if you'd like to have a family? Yes, then get out of there.

2) You don't need to give him an explanation. You can say, there are structural problems with our relationship, I don't think we have the kind of future I would like to see for my family. Find your own place, move out.

3) Go to a therapist to help you pick up the pieces and move on.

4) Move on.

Be glad you caught this now and not later.

Daughter of a bisexual / gay man who has been married 4 times, and finally came out on the 4th to take lovers. He was beaten badly as a child by his parents for expressing an 'unhealthyl' interest in men. This stuff goes deep, get the hell out unless you love this man enough for it to be a major part of your life.

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