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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I did write that I was there for her. I left work and we spent the entire day and night on Thursday together. We cried, I comforted, and we did speak. We did discuss some stuff but not everything. I told her I loved her and that this didn't change that. Then we both worked Friday. She was suppose to go to her sisters and I out for a friends birthday. 
I went out and had too much to drink, which I normally drink every 1-2 months.

I'm every close with my sister. We lost our parents when I was a teen and she practically raised me. I didn't have permission but she is the one I go to. I didn't tell anyone but her.

Now, I love my girlfriend. We have gone through death, surgeries, and illness during our time together. We have worked through everything. I will support her to the end and she knows it. We have come out stronger. She is a beautiful person that I feel so lucky to have in my life. I am not ready to give it up. This was intended as a " what to do" situation. This is more of how do I get her back? [/quote]

I'm really pulling for you OP. As to how to what to do now, I have to say that the PP that posted about feeling being raw and her husband's infertility being her infertility just got to me. Assuming you feel that way, does the girlfriend know that?  I can't put it any better than 16:58, but if your girlfriend knew that you felt like that and in your grief you made mistakes would she be able to forgive you? [/quote]

OP here. Now I'm starting to get pissed. Haven't any of you ever made mistakes in relationships and life? Handled a situation poorly? Half of you are acting like you're saints.

I explained further I spent the whole day with her when she found out. I told her I love her and this doesn't change anything for me. I do view this as my infertility too. For those saying I don't love her, you're wrong. When she had ovarian cyst surgery, I took off 3 weeks for nearly 24 hour care while she was on bedrest. When her dad died, I blew off an important meeting ( almost got fired) to fly there to be with her. When she lost her job, I paid her rent for 2 ninja and then asked her to move in. I love her and I'm very committed to her and our relationship. I want a family but we can adopt or go an alternative route. I didn't handle it well but I taking ownership and willing to do whatever it takes.[/quote]

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