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[quote=Anonymous]I am not divorced so have little experience here, but what your mom did was totally inappropriate--inviting your ex-husband without consulting you. Totally inappropriate. Is your mom always like this or is this some divorce-induced craziness? Your Dad should not be acting like Switzerland--he should be telling your mom she is nuts and wrong. The fact that he isn't, plus that she even did this and is now giving you the silent treatment, suggests to me that she may have serious issues and that her family does not typically stand up to her. It makes me wonder if such dynamics may have played out in your own marriage. Anyway, all of this is to say what you did is so obviously the right decision. Whatever happens this Thanksgiving, I hope you can enjoy it, and love your parents without feeling like you have to put up with this shit. It's totally unacceptable. What you are modeling to your children right now is far better than going and playing 'happy family.'[/quote]
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