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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get how you feel, but it is ypur DH's house too. But, given that he is the one to want her to stay, can he deal with all the crap...he should be cleaning the house, the sheets, buying groceries, making meals etc. make him a list if you feel like he does not know what to do. Make a schedule of what needs to be done ( for ypur job and child) and stick with it. Make it clear that ypu are unable to cater to ypur SIL this visit. [/quote] This. DH does everything. If you would be cooking dinner anyway, fine, include SIL ... but if not, het can do it. He can clean, cook, get her settled, etc. You do what you need to do for yourself, your job, and your kid. If SIL doesn't like it, too bad, maybe she'll stay away next time. If she's fine with it, then it's win-win, because you don't have to do anything.[/quote]
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