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[quote=Anonymous]The women I know without kids fall generally into two camps, with overlap occurring in some situations: (a) never wanted kids or was/is on the fence about it, or (b) has a crappy partner/ no partner. Frankly - and I know I'm going to be flamed for this - I frequently see women who didn't have kids because they didn't want them as being self-absorbed (same goes for men). I have literally had a conversation with an unmarried girlfriend with no kids say she was worried about what having kids would do to her body. Some men and women without kids just seem to have arrested development - concerned with appearance, working out, dating, going out, and their career. Ultimately, this does not seem like a very fulfilling way to live (but that might just be the jealousy talking ;)). Women and men who want kids but either haven't found the right partner or deal with infertility come across differently. There's more of an empathy, a softness there that I don't generally see in the camp described above. [/quote]
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