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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]quote=Anonymous]
So why would you want someone you obviously think has poor judgement to raise your child? Sounds like MIL's not the only one trying to get something for nothin'. I guess it's true that men marry women just like their mothers.[/quote]
Now that you have gotten that out of your system, you might want to try reading the thread. [/quote]

I did, every painful word. You don't like her, you think she's lazy and gossipy, and yet you want her to raise your child. I get that you're concerned about their future in so far as it impacts you. You are not the only couple on the planet who had parents who didn't plan well. But you also sound like you are a judgmental bean counter. You're doing it to your husband, too, by the way.

Make a plan with your husband about what you can and cannot do for them. Then share it with them so that they can plan accordingly. If they wash their hands of you, so be it. You don't seem to care much for them anyway.[/quote]

You're not the sharpest tool in the shed if you think people can do other people's retirement planning without any access to financials. You've taken your potshot, which is clearly all you are good for. Stop posting now.[/quote]

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