Reply to Pregnant and husband has been sleeping with intern

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Pregnant and husband has been sleeping with intern"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. OP, you briefly mentioned a medical condition that prevents intercourse, not completely, but mostly. I think you and the posters in this thread are underestimating the importance of this in explaining what is going on with your husband. I am sorry to say it, because it's not your fault/choice and you are making a sincere effort to compensate.

But for this reason, I question the verdict of "sex addict" that some PPs have suggested.

What can you do? [b]Dan Savage would suggest a consensual open relationship[/b] but it sounds like you don't want that, and I understand. Tough situation, sorry OP.

[/quote]

Dan Savage has some very good but tough advice in your situation.  To basically paraphrase, your DH is not and will never be monogamous.  Never.  But if you are happy and can live with it, then accept it as the price of admission.  In that case, either open the marriage ethically, or give him a don't ask don't tell.  And stop snooping.   If you can't handle either of those options, you need to break up.

Making him promise to be monogamous is pointless.  It is a commitment he is incapable of keeping.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics