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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a DW and the lower libido spouse in my relationship.  I do think your wife should be making more of an effort - just lying there during sex is not cool.  I found that once my husband and I got into a groove of more sex (twice a week), that I started wanting it more.  It's getting over the initial hurdle that's tough.  What worked for us was my husband offering lots of physical affection but upfront saying that he wasn't looking for sex.  That took the pressure off and let me relax, which ultimately led me to want to have sex.  But you have to be completely genuine that you're not looking for sex at that moment.  Here's what worked for us:

- DH giving full body massage.  I had to get naked but he didn't want sex.  Just wanted to give me a good massage and get to touch my body.  Win-win.  Most times, after being touched while naked and completely relaxed, I was begging him for sex.

- DH saying he just wanted to make out a bit.  It was fun to feel like teenagers just kissing.  But of course, that does awaken things.

The key is to truly convince her that you're not just trying to get sex though.   Hope this helps![/quote]

Wow, this is so similar to what my DW and I did it's scary.  [/quote]

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