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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here:  my guess is that you are significantly underestimating how much your DH is unhappy about your frequency of sex.  I was in a similar boat, and became somewhat resentful about my DW's much-increased interest in having sex during TTC periods as compared to our rather lackluster baseline. [b]  It just kind of puts it in your face to see her aggressively take the initiative to have sex in order to conceive, as compared to the general lack of interest. [/b] [/quote]

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I had a kind of retroactive version of this. After the kids were born and my wife stopped being interested in sex more than once a month, I got resentful when I recalled how she could manage to initiate sex frequently when we were trying to conceive kid #2. The resentment didn't set it when kid #2 was an infant -- this was when kid #2 was 4 or 5 years old. In light of her efforts to conceive kid #2 -- despite all the stresses of caring for a toddler at that time -- when she was uninterested in sex later, it was clear that it was a matter of "don't want to" on her part rather than "can't." [/quote]

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