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Reply to "2nd wives: If DH came from low/no sex 1st marriage, how often do you feel you can turn him down?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No woman should have to atone for the low sex drive, or any other faults, of her partner's ex. Yes people in general should be sure to keep intimacy in their relationship, but the 1st marriage has nothing to do with it. [/quote] Well, it does to some extent. Because she knew the guy's needs going into the marriage -- knew he was less capable of enduring this sort of rejection than the average guy. That creates some responsibilities above and beyond what you sign up for as the average person getting married. It's not "atoning". It's loving your spouse as you find them. If you're not prepared to do that, then step out of the way and let them find happiness with someone else rather than marrying them. [/quote]
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