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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why won't he consider donor sperm or adoption? What about adopting an embryo you could carry (assuming you could)? I found out I couldn't have biological children or a pregnancy when I was in my mid-20s, and infertility is an ugly road. I'm sorry, OP. [/quote]

Her issue is MFI and she is 37, so her eggs and ability to carry a baby are not at issue at this point. What IS at issue is that her husband has done all of the ART he is willing to do and is not open to adoption, and OP is not ready to close the door on being a parent.

This is not an either/or situation OP. You want to keep trying for a family and he is content with the efforts you have made already. I think that you should leave the marriage and go about [b]creating the family you want[/b], in whatever way works best for you. Good luck. [/quote]

She can still create that family while being married. She does not have to leave.
Also OP, if you leave you would be twice divorced, that is a red flag.
Just get a sperm donor. [/quote]

I can't imagine getting a sperm donor behind DH's back. That's a guarantee I'll be twice divorced. But my wanting a child will probably leave me twice divorced anyway. Being kind and kind of cute does not outweigh a 2x divorced single mom...red flags all over. [/quote]

she can get the other relationship later, she can't wait on the child thing. [/quote]

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