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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Without reading any of the responses, and just the OP. My 1st thought is to show this very post to DH. I know its embarassing to admit that you post on here and that you are asking internet strangers for advice but I think if you let him see this in writing, very clearly, you will have a good place to start a productive discussion.

[b]I think it also will help you to try to let some of your feelings about your own sacrifice and struggle not be conflated with your inlaws issues. Its hard because it shapes your perspective obviously, but at that same time it won't help you figure out what to do and how to talk to your DH about it. Even if you decide to not give a penny, its best to try to keep those feelings separate if at all possible.[/b][/quote]

Disagree.  It is her hard struggle and self sacrifice that has enabled her to have strong, practical goals and to avoid financial dysfunction.[/quote]

OP here.  Without my self sacrifice, none of the money that they are looking to would exist.  So, I agree that my careful decisions are certainly relevant.[/quote]

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