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[quote=Anonymous] Your marriage concerns are quite valid, OP. Some marriages dissolve over money issues, especially when having to fund their relatives' irresponsible lifestyles. Since you are the breadwinner, you need to protect yourself and kids first if your DH is not on the same page. You can support your husband emotionally without enabling the financial dysfunction. Hopefully, your DH will not pressure you to provide financial support for his parents. And another thing to keep in mind is that since you plan to buy a house, don't be surprised if your in laws will want to move in as a solution. Your DH should assist his own parents in applying for government help as well as helping his mother find full time work. Your DH needs to handle this and not put it on you. And I don't think your salary matters. People are so quick to ask about salary. Salary minus expenses is what counts. [/quote]
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