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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello again! It's me, the OP who was overthinking the Easter thing.  I'm back and now overthinking birthday gifts.

MIL has told me that she already sent a box of "small gifts" for us to take on our upcoming vacation or to open before we leave for 2 of my kids who are celebrating their birthdays while we're on vacation.  She's wondering what to do with "the rest of the gifts".  She says we can open them as soon as we get home or else when they come visit us later in the summer (about 4-6 weeks after the kids' bdays), but either way she'll send them in the mail (so not really sure what she's asking if she's already planning on sending them).  What I want to say is "don't buy more gifts. Whatever the "smaller gifts" are will be more than enough."  In need of the perspective many of you provided before Easter. Thanks![/quote]

What on earth do you think you'd be teaching your kids?  Won't you want to relay the message that you gratefully accept a gift?  That you don't purposefully hurt someone's feelings?  That faily is important?  That you respect your elders?  So what if she didn't really want your input on getting additional gifts to the smaller ones.  So what if you want to say, "don't buy more gifts."  Just zip your lip and be grateful your kids are loved and remembered.[/quote]

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