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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OP. I haven't done anything since I paid to bail her out. I have spoken with her but there's no offer for help. I did not get her car out. She needed the meds and I had no way of knowing if they could or would be given to her if she had to sit there for days on end. She has an 11 year old child, I did not want something preventable happening to her in jail if she could not safely come off those meds in a tapering fashion. You think I'm enabling her to hurt others- do you think I could live with myself if my 11 year old sibling lost his mother because she didn't have access to medication she needed because I was "teaching her a lesson"?[/quote]

You were in a crappy position last night.  Although I doubt she would die if she had to not have the anxiety meds while she was in there.  Scary withdrawal maybe, but death? What else does she take, anything that keeps her alive?

How will you live with yourself if she kills herself or someone else while driving drunk?  What will happen to the 11 year old then?

You haven't helped her get her car -- GOOD.  Do you think you can make it clear to her now that you are finished?  Whatever she does from here on out is on her own head?  Fines or other results of going to court on this one, any further DUI's or other issues are on HER head.

You have a lot of justifications in these posts.  The bottom line for the general public is that you need to stop.[/quote]

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