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[quote=Anonymous]I have a DS who is now 2.5 and we have gone away together 3 different times because we have a trusted babysitting source. I had zero problem doing this. I have always taken the attitude that you need to focus on your marriage and not just your children. I also welcome the break and never really understood women that had such an issue with leaving their children as long as it was with a trusted source, such as grandparents or a nanny. I probably have reverse guilt, guilty for not feeling guilty! I also love an enjoy my husband, so maybe that is the difference? When my children grow up and leave my house, I will be left with my husband and if I don't maintain that relationship we basically will be roommates/strangers living together, who wants that? I also believe your children will see as they get older that you and your spouse lack connection if you continue to ignore his needs and what should also be your needs! Food for thought! [/quote]
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