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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Gaia][quote=Anonymous]How was the response at your work - assuming you were a male when hired and are still at the same place since you officially transitioned? (You may not be)[/quote] I moved after I started transitioning, just to give myself a completely fresh start. My current job has only known me as a woman. Somebody I thought was a friend outed me to my boss, but my boss does not mind. I haven't told any coworkers.[/quote] (new poster). I don't know why this annoys me or if it's wrong that it does (I feel guilty about it so assume it is wrong), but I hate seeing transgendered women (male to female) and cross dressers. I was born female, am straight and present as female. The transgendered women and those who crossdress in women's clothes NEVER look like any women I know. They always have fake manicured nails, heavily makeup'd faces, very frilly dresses, heels, etc. Why don't I ever see a transgendered woman wearing just jeans and a t-shirt like I wear every day? I can always spot a trans woman, without needing to be told. Do you think people really can't tell? Or am I just good at this? [/quote] I'm 12:48. I can't speak to the OP's gender expression, but there is obviously a spectrum of expressed gender that ranges from hair natural and not styled, no cosmetics, plain clothes to completely dolled up. I know trans women who look like regular women. I know trans women who still look very male. I know one beautiful trans man who looks male and female at the same time and is one of the most beautiful human beings I have ever seen. Yesterday, I wore plain slacks and a plain button down shirt to work. I put my hair in a ponytail. I wore no makeup. Today I'm wearing a dress and my hair is styled and I'm wearing makeup. Personal preference, timing, etc.[/quote]
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