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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it possible she's have psychiatric issues?  A friend of mine went on antidepressants and became extremely disinhibited.  She didn't tell us until after it was all over-and was very embarrassed.  It was really bad, she did some crazy stuff (and I am not easily shocked) which was then revealed very publicly.  Now she is back to her regular self.

If you consider her a friend, I think this is a case where you should say something stern to her about her behavior.  [/quote]

Did you stay friends? [/quote]

Yes, we've stayed friends.  She made bad choices because she was sick.  I couldn't be friends with someone who just went around hurting people and didn't care, but the situation with my friend was not like that.[/quote]

This is OP. My friend I am talking about had some psychological issues in the past. She was bulimic in undergrad and later in professional life she was on antidepressants because of long work hours. Eventually she became SATM and got off the pills. Other than that she has a very sweet, stable personality. [/quote]

In that case, I would sit down with her and say something like: "I'm your friend, I care about you, and I'm really worried.  Usually you are such a sweet, nice person.  Now you're cheating on your husband and running around with all these guys. That isn't like you.  If there is something bad going on between you and your husband, you can tell me and I'll try to help.  I really hope you will get an appointment with a therapist this week.  I can help you find someone and I can drive you the appointment.  Please know that I'm only saying this because I care about you."[/quote]

This is OP again. She already told me what's wrong in her marriage and I personally think it takes 2 to tango. She is a person who avoids conflict and her first desire is to divorce but then she explained me that she is afraid that her husband will get mad etc etc. So she wants to keep things like this until kids grow up I guess? [/quote]

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