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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the friend was a guy with a domestic assault in his past about to marry some wonderful woman, would posters be giving the same advice to let bygones be bygones?  http://time.com/2921491/hope-solo-women-violence/[/quote]

If the guy had one episode ten years ago (where it wasn't even clear he injured someone, was convicted, etc.) and nothing since, I wouldn't be insisting that everyone know about it. Sometimes people actually do change.[/quote]

So if it wasn't that bad and nothing like it ever happened again, why wouldn't he just tell his future life partner?  [/quote]

That's her choice.  Just because you don't see the righteousness or rationale behind it doesn't give you the right to intervene in their relationship and what they voluntarily disclose to one another.  She didn't deliberately hide it.  Not like she's on house arrest and masking the ankle bracelet by wearing Uggz 24/7.  He might be in the military for all you know and might empathize with her "don't ask don't tell" philosophy.
Mind your business.[/quote]

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