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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the friend was a guy with a domestic assault in his past about to marry some wonderful woman, would posters be giving the same advice to let bygones be bygones?  http://time.com/2921491/hope-solo-women-violence/[/quote]

If the guy had one episode ten years ago (where it wasn't even clear he injured someone, was convicted, etc.) and nothing since, I wouldn't be insisting that everyone know about it. Sometimes people actually do change.[/quote]

So if it wasn't that bad and nothing like it ever happened again, why wouldn't he just tell his future life partner?  [/quote]

Simply put, that is none of your business. At e dyes embarrassed she was cheated on?  That she list control one time when catching her boyfriend with another woman?  I would never expect my husband to tell me things he prefers to keep private about his past.  He's a human being with a right to autonomy and privacy with our marriage.  Maybe that's the kind of marriage she and her fiancé want. None if this has anything to do with you.  If you are so in favor if full information flow between spouses, be sure to show your husband this thread do he knows what a butter, jealous person you can be.[/quote]

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